* set upper bound on EpochRef cache
* max 32 EpochRef instances
* less memory waste in BlockRef by removing EpochRef seq that is mostly
unused (~20mb)
* less memory waste in dag block lookup by not keeping an extra copy of
digest (~70mb)
* fix `==` and `$` for Eth2Digest
* remove `ChainDAG.tmpState` (~50mb?)
all in all, this branch cuts mainnet memory usage by ~160-180mb and puts
limits on EpochRef cache usage - where normally it hovered around 950mb
before, it's now sitting at 600-700mb on my machine.
* docs
* Deferred DAG and fork choice pruning
* fixup
* Address https://github.com/status-im/nimbus-eth2/pull/2384/files#r589448448, rely only on onSLotEnd for state pruning
* no need to store needPruning in the data structure
* lastPrunePoint is updated in pruning proc
* Split eager and LazyPruning
* enforce pruning in updateHead