The recycle/async-destroy work changed the Nim `ffiDtor` export from
`int destroy(ctx)` to `int destroy(ctx, callback, userData)`, but the C++
and Rust generators still emitted the 1-arg signature. Foreign callers
therefore passed only `ctx`; inside Nim, `callback`/`userData` held
uninitialised register garbage. `requestRecycle` stored the garbage
callback and the recycle handler later invoked it — a jump through a wild
pointer that segfaulted in every C++ E2E / ASan / TSan job (the crash
surfaced at teardown, after each test's assertions had already passed).
Generate the 3-arg ABI and have the destructor/Drop block on the recycle
callback via the existing sync-call helper, so the pool slot is fully
drained and parked before the handle goes away — otherwise rapid
create/destroy churn (StressShortLivedPerThreadContext, ThreadedHammer)
could outrun the recycle and exhaust the pool.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>