* protect against mem leak in case of failures sending requests to ffi thread
* better cleanup if failures in createFFIContext
* avoid dangling cstring in handleRes under ARC/ORC
* better resource cleanup in destroyFFIContext
* invoke onNotResponding if failure in destroyFFIContext
* correct seq copy in alloc
* make sure the lock is init before cleanUpResources
* better possible exception handling in processReq
* guard allocSharedSeq if given seq is empty
* enhance error handling in ffi_context
* add new tests and some corrections
