* count published messages
* don't call `switch.dial` in `subscribeToPeer`
* add secureconn constructor
* close in the correct order
* concurent dial lock and track in/out conns better
* make tests pass
* add todo comment
* disconect peers that open too many connections
* wip
* do connection and muxer tracking in one place
* prevent nil pointer in observers
* drop connections when peers is over max
* prevent channel leaks
* don't use closure to handle channel
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